Still here, although neck-deep in drama.

I can’t get much into the details right now for legal reasons, but I will say I filed for divorce last week. This came directly on the heels of an incident that involved the police, and charges have been filed on that. I wish I could spill the whole story, but I’m pretty sure I’d be getting nasty calls from a lawyer if I did. Needless to say I’m not online a lot right now(internet at home has been cut off, not by me) and so my blogging has been a bit less.

As things calm down I promise I’ll be writing a bit more, and this tale will all be told in time. (Please excuse the slowness in approving comments if you are new here, again, no internet access.)

Hope all is well, and missing you guys and your blogs terribly!

58 Comments on Where in the World is Suburban Oblivion?

  1. Kellyology
    May 15, 2008 at 11:15 am (9 years ago)

    Sending you go vibes….and wishing you the best.

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  2. ben
    May 15, 2008 at 11:16 am (9 years ago)

    Hang in there!

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  3. Jen
    May 15, 2008 at 11:22 am (9 years ago)

    Oh my gosh! Please take extra good care of yourself.

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  4. Heather G
    May 15, 2008 at 11:23 am (9 years ago)

    Sending good vibes for you and your children. I wish you the best.

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  5. Paul OFlaherty
    May 15, 2008 at 11:26 am (9 years ago)

    I know you’ll get through this Sara.

    Hang in there and everything will work out, for the best and for better in the end.

    You know that I’m here for you, always.

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  6. Erika Jurney
    May 15, 2008 at 11:30 am (9 years ago)

    Oh man Sara, XOXOXO. You sound strong – I hope you can keep that up. Good luck and I look forward to hearing your story when you’re ready and able.

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  7. Mr Business Golf
    May 15, 2008 at 11:31 am (9 years ago)

    MBG is here for ya…in time this will all be far behind you. Keep that chin up…and keep in touch with all of as you can…I look forward to reading your sense of humor and your point of view… again.

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  8. Andria
    May 15, 2008 at 11:35 am (9 years ago)

    Sending out some good vibes for you.

    Sorry you’re going through all of this.

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  9. Natalie
    May 15, 2008 at 11:37 am (9 years ago)

    You know I’m thinking of you, and despite what you think, you are one of the strongest people I have ever known. 😉

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  10. Mommy Daisy
    May 15, 2008 at 11:41 am (9 years ago)

    Sara, I’m sorry to hear of your problems. Just wanted you to know that I’ll be thinking of you. I hope that everything works out wonderfully.

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  11. MammaLoves
    May 15, 2008 at 11:41 am (9 years ago)

    I’m missing you too.

    Here if you need anything.

    xoxo
    Amie

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  12. Brillig
    May 15, 2008 at 12:12 pm (9 years ago)

    I can’t even imagine how traumatic all of this is. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers…

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  13. Michele
    May 15, 2008 at 12:19 pm (9 years ago)

    Obviously, I don’t know what’s going on – but it’s also just as obvious that it’s scary. I’m thinking of you.

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  14. Val
    May 15, 2008 at 12:27 pm (9 years ago)

    Hey girl, I am still here in town if you need anything, anything at all don’t hesitate to give me a call.

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  15. Amanda
    May 15, 2008 at 12:45 pm (9 years ago)

    I heart you!! And as the Christopher Robin told Pooh, “Promise me you will always remember; You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, smarter than you think”

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  16. Christibear
    May 15, 2008 at 1:33 pm (9 years ago)

    You are in my prayers. Ah yes, those ol days with the police and the hospital and the disconnected utilities and internet…. I remember them well. Remember, this too shall pass.

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  17. mimipz5wjj
    May 15, 2008 at 2:26 pm (9 years ago)

    OMG! Sending good vibes your way…

    Hope things sort themselves out for you soon!

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  18. Assertagirl
    May 15, 2008 at 2:47 pm (9 years ago)

    Hope you’re doin’ okay, Sara. The Internet will be here for you when you’re ready.

    xo

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  19. Devilish Southern Belle
    May 15, 2008 at 3:14 pm (9 years ago)

    Best of luck to you. I’ve been there as well. Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you from afar!

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  20. J
    May 15, 2008 at 3:26 pm (9 years ago)

    So sorry for what sounds like a crappy time in your life. 🙁 Best wishes that you come through this quickly and all goes well.

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  21. girlymom
    May 15, 2008 at 3:38 pm (9 years ago)

    I’ve missed your tweets and posts so much. You were the first person to “talk” to me on Twitter. You planted that little blogging seed in my head and now I’ve done it. Thank you for that because I love it.

    One quote that helped me through a difficult time:

    “Barn’s burnt down, now I can see the moon.” -Masahide

    Maybe that will mean something to you as well.
    Wishing you the best!

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  22. ~JJ!
    May 15, 2008 at 3:43 pm (9 years ago)

    Hugs to you.

    Sending you all the best wishes…

    I’m here if you need to chat.

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  23. Rachael
    May 15, 2008 at 4:21 pm (9 years ago)

    So sorry about the drama. We’ll all be here awaiting your return. Hugs and good vibes to you. It’s never easy to go through a divorce no matter what the circumstances, so I hope it goes as smoothly as it can.

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  24. Christine
    May 15, 2008 at 5:58 pm (9 years ago)

    I’m so sorry to hear about this. Take care of yourself!

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  25. Jackie
    May 15, 2008 at 6:13 pm (9 years ago)

    You are definitely in my thoughts!
    Stay strong!

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  26. Cindy
    May 15, 2008 at 7:23 pm (9 years ago)

    You are in my thoughts. Please take care…(((hugs)))

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  27. Summer
    May 15, 2008 at 7:34 pm (9 years ago)

    Take care of yourself and the kids! (((HUGS)))

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  28. Bananas
    May 16, 2008 at 2:20 am (9 years ago)

    Sara!!!!! Hang in there!!!

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  29. Cheryl
    May 16, 2008 at 10:25 am (9 years ago)

    You’re still in my thoughts.

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  30. nutmeg
    May 16, 2008 at 10:47 am (9 years ago)

    My thoughts and prayers are with you.

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  31. ali
    May 16, 2008 at 11:07 am (9 years ago)

    ohmigosh! i hope everything’s okay. sending you love, friend 🙂

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  32. Shauna
    May 16, 2008 at 12:41 pm (9 years ago)

    I’m so sorry to hear this. Lots of positive vibes being sent your way. Take care of yourself, too.

    And if you need anything, let me know. I’m actually going through a similar situation with lawyers and not blogging for legal reasons (not divorce, but a sexual harassment lawsuit).

    Take care, Sara.

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  33. Mrs. Schmitty
    May 16, 2008 at 5:00 pm (9 years ago)

    What a really tough time you must be going through. You sound very strong, keep your chin up. I hope this all resolves soon. My thoughts are with you!

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  34. Christina
    May 16, 2008 at 8:03 pm (9 years ago)

    I’m so sorry. I can’t imagine the stress you’re going through.

    If there’s anything I can do, please don’t hesitate to ask. Take care of yourself.

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  35. Cassey
    May 17, 2008 at 8:54 pm (9 years ago)

    I wish there was something I could do for you. If we were neighbors I’d offer to watch your kids or make you dinner or take you to lunch to get your mind off of it all but, we since we are not… I’m not sure what to do to help except say a prayer for you and send some good vibes and thoughts your way. If you happen to think of anything I can do for you, shot me an email. 🙂 Stay strong.

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  36. Sarcastic Mom
    May 18, 2008 at 5:36 pm (9 years ago)

    Oh, Sara. I’m so sorry life is dealing you a shitty deck. Hopefully this stress will end quickly and your life can begin anew.

    Thinking of you.

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  37. Blue Momma
    May 18, 2008 at 5:40 pm (9 years ago)

    Damn. When I saw you pop up on my reader I sure wasn’t expecting this. I hope everything turns out for the best.

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  38. motherofbun
    May 19, 2008 at 7:16 am (9 years ago)

    Have been thinking of you lots. Sending vibes of support and strength.

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  39. Nell
    May 19, 2008 at 9:28 am (9 years ago)

    Hope everything goes smoothly from here on out! Hang in there.

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  40. Jamie E
    May 19, 2008 at 9:49 am (9 years ago)

    sorry to hear the news, miss you.

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  41. Lela
    May 19, 2008 at 11:58 am (9 years ago)

    Keep your chin up! It’s rocky right now but it will all fall into place!

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  42. Cate
    May 19, 2008 at 11:12 pm (9 years ago)

    wow…i check your blog to see how you’re doing, and i didn’t expect this! sorry to hear about what’s going on…stay strong. you’ve got lots of support here when you need it.

    i’m sending hugs and good luck vibes your way!

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  43. crunchy carpets
    May 20, 2008 at 9:04 pm (9 years ago)

    Geezus…I am so sorry….

    Hugs to you….

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  44. Neil
    May 21, 2008 at 11:30 am (9 years ago)

    Be well…

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  45. Jess
    May 21, 2008 at 11:38 am (9 years ago)

    I am so sorry. Take all the time you need. Sending you support and hugs.

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  46. Jerseygirl89
    May 22, 2008 at 6:22 pm (9 years ago)

    Hey Sara,

    Thinking of you and sending you positive thoughts.

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  47. Julie
    May 22, 2008 at 10:14 pm (9 years ago)

    holy smokes! i turn my back for one minute (okay, maybe I’ve been a little consumed with baby for a few months) and then… wow! yikes! sending lots of love and prayers from this one little corner of the blogoshpere. you were there for me when I needed it. let me know if there’s anything i can do…

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  48. Mrs. R
    May 23, 2008 at 12:09 pm (9 years ago)

    My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Stay safe…

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  49. Karly
    May 25, 2008 at 10:21 am (9 years ago)

    Thinking of you and sending good vibes your way.

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  50. slackermommy
    May 28, 2008 at 2:04 pm (9 years ago)

    I’m so sorry you are going through this. Thinking of you, girl. Take care.

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  51. Ariel
    June 10, 2008 at 2:08 pm (9 years ago)

    New here, just saying WOW! Hang in there, I’ve been there and it SUCKS!
    Its worth getting though, one way or another, because happiness is not overrated.

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